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Recently there have been a bunch of good essays (links below) discussing how the birth location, and type of attendant, affect outcomes. These pieces all take the time for some non-propaganda, nuanced thought and reflection about what would improve things for a diverse American population of mothers. It’s a welcome change from some of the less rigorous thought we often see on this topic. Instead of having a pitched battle about whether ALL HOMEBIRTH IS VERY DANGEROUS AND IRRESPONSIBLE AND RISKY! and whether ALL HOSPITAL BIRTH IS TOTALLY OVERMEDICALIZED AND DANGEROUS AND HATEFUL AND NOT EVIDENCE BASED, these essays look at the improvements we need, overall, to our maternity care system.
Here’s a brief summary (but honestly, these are issues that aren’t well suited to brief summary):
Is that really too much to ask for in 2012 in the United States of America?
These changes would create a more functional system in which each woman could get care appropriate to her particular needs, not the needs of women in general. This is called reproductive choice, and it should be available to everyone, not just educated, white-glove-insured people in major cities.
A functional system would also get us away from the kind of strident hysteria that too often accompanies discussion about birth, which, when you care about these issues, become truly a pain in the ass to read. (don’t get me wrong — emotional discussion of one’s birth when you’ve just had a baby is totally appropriate. Ideally, though, that personal topic is handled separately from a policy discussion of how care can be improved for everyone.)
Here’s what you can do, meanwhile:
Here are the links to the essays: The original piece in Slate by Emily Willingham, an article about it on Babble by Ceridwen Morris, Emily Willingham’s blog followup, and a Comment by Midwife Amy Romano.
This stuff matters.
How did it go for you? If you gave birth in the hospital, how did you feel about the post-natal policies and the care you received? If you gave birth at home, were you in a state where you had access to a CNM? And what was her home-birth training? You can email me comments or use the Disqus feature below.
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